In the past 23 hours God spared my life (literally), grew my platform/passion/mission and granted me favor. I'm not bragging but thanking God publicly. Take a moment and ask yourself, what has God done for me today? Make sure you give Him thanks and praise for it all and in the midst of it all!
Psalms 91 NKJV: 1 He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High Shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. 2 I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress; My God, in Him I will trust.” 3 Surely He shall deliver you from the snare of the fowler And from the perilous pestilence. 4 He shall cover you with His feathers, And under His wings you shall take refuge; His truth shall be your shield and buckler. 5 You shall not be afraid of the terror by night, Nor of the arrow that flies by day, 6 Nor of the pestilence that walks in darkness, Nor of the destruction that lays waste at noonday. 7 A thousand may fall at your side, And ten thousand at your right hand; But it shall not come near you. 8 Only with your eyes shall you look, And see the reward of the wicked. 9 Because you have made the Lord, who is my refuge, Even the Most High, your dwelling place, 10 No evil shall befall you, Nor shall any plague come near your dwelling; 11 For He shall give His angels charge over you, To keep you in all your ways. 12 In their hands they shall bear you up, Lest you dash your foot against a stone. 13 You shall tread upon the lion and the cobra, The young lion and the serpent you shall trample underfoot.14 “Because he has set his love upon Me, therefore I will deliver him; I will set him on high, because he has known My name. 15 He shall call upon Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him and honor him. 16 With long life I will satisfy him, And show him My salvation.”
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I posted this on my social media pages and some of my Facebook groups with the question, what does your faith say about today? One reply I received was “all things possible within reason”. Of course, that sparked something in my spirit. That reply was like a beautiful plate before with so many delicious items that I could not wait to enjoy! “All things possible within reason”: of course the Pastor/teacher within me wants to say, “there is no within reason! If you have to add a within reason that means you really don’t think whatever goes before that is possible.” While there is some truth to that, the realist side to me says, “in life there are always limitations”. You can sit down and meditate on this reply and come up with your own dialogue which I strongly encourage. This would be a great discussion point at your next girlfriends’ gathering, social meeting, church ministry, professional organization, etc. What I will say is we all need to define our “within reason” CAUTIOUSLY, PRAYFERFULLY and METICULOUSLY. While there are limitations in life, I am one that believes in rooting for the underdog. In my own life, I have fought and am fighting daily to overcome the “limitations, obstacles and barriers”. Some of us use the “within reason” to put our desires, wants and aspirations in a box. There will always be the naysayers who want you to believe in the “within reason” because they only want you to go as high as they say you can and not one step further. If there “within reason” does not align to your “within reason”, where do you go from there? Webster.com defines reason as: ”a statement or fact that explains why something is the way it is, why someone does, thinks, or says something, or why someone behaves a certain way : a fact, condition, or situation that makes it proper or appropriate to do something, feel something, etc. : the power of the mind to think and understand in a logical way” These are all reasons why the “within reason” part sparked something within me. I discovered in my recent journey to be transparent and release my testimony of surviving 17 years of childhood abuse and how to find happiness while awaiting your dreams, that I needed to step outside of what others deemed as reasonable or appropriate. People always want to know why would you write a book revealing such a personal side of your life? In this day of faking it before you make it and keeping up the appearance of having it all together, why would you share would people some of your darkest moments and personal struggles? My answer, why not? Why wouldn’t you share with people what saved your life? Why can’t you be transparent and throw a life raft to someone who is literally on the edge of life and wondering how and when to end it all? Why not share the lessons you learned during your journey and with clarity demonstrate the path to restoration, healing and optimum health? I might be a survivor, motivator and joy enthusiast today but I remember a time where all I did was pray to die because I thought death was the only escape out of my life of pain. Now that might not seem logical or reasonable to the naysayer but anything else to me would be inhumane and uncivilized. “All things possible within reason”: again, I thank the lovely Queen who submitted that reply and I do not condemn you nor belittle you for your viewpoint. I do, however, encourage anyone reading this post that, if your reply is the same, make sure that you define within reason and take it prayerfully to God for the proper alignment for your life. Otherwise, your reason may just be the box that encapsulates or limits your “all things are possible”. createspace.com/5074934 à Sometimes all you have is Happy: A guide to obtaining happiness while awaiting your dreams Whether simple or small there are great lessons that life teaches us every day. I returned to the gym today after two months (doctor’s orders). Adding to the challenge was the fact that this was one of my toughest classes and instructors. However, you have to start somewhere and why not now? (The longer you wait the longer you put off your success and none of us can afford to do that in any area of our lives.) I made a healthy, nutrient enriched breakfast and even had a friend say she would meet me there. I was so excited and reminded myself that I had waited for this moment. Step 1: I put my gear on and laced up my shoes (I came prepared/equipped). Step 2: I showed up (talk is cheap; just do it)! Step 3: I reminded myself that I had done this a million times and I was capable of doing it again although I was out of practice. (Philippians 4:13 You can do all things through Christ . . .) I won’t lie: the first 10 minutes were brutal! The first five were awkward; I was soon out of breath and I wanted to stop, take a break and go home! The next five minutes had me feeling like I was way over my head and maybe I should have waited a little longer before returning. Sounds familiar (think about your life in and outside of the gym)? There is good news: after the first 10 minutes, I received my second wind! Amazingly, the body acclimated itself to the intensity that two months ago was part of my regular regimen and suddenly I was leading the pack. The more the instructor asked us to speed it up the more I rose to the challenge. At the end of the class my body felt so good and like I had never stopped or taken time off. So what’s the lesson? Life is full of challenges and there are so many things that we start and don’t finish only to be forced to revisit them later. Many know that all too well when they make their New Year’s resolutions and Vision Boards. Sure, you might initially be excited and willing to re-enlist only to soon feel frustrated, worn out and ready to give up before you can really get started. Don’t be deceived; the initial pains, aches and tiredness are nothing compared to how your body, mind and spirit will feel once you accomplish what you set out to do. Moral to this story: you will make it but you must keep fighting! createspace.com/5074934 As I prepare for the upcoming year, all I can do is thank God. Life will always have its challenges and unforeseen circumstances but each day is a blessing and an opportunity. Literally every day this week a new opportunity arose and doors opened that I once only dreamed of. Lesson: thank God for your dry places/seasons--they equip you to live according to your purpose and destiny and enable you to truly rejoice when God brings you to YOUR land overflowing with milk and honey. Bonus: it really is all about God's time and not ours. Our visions are way too small according to God’s plans for us and we are simply not ready when we think we are.
It is truly AMAZING to watch the blessings of God overtake you especially during the beginning stages. #NextDimensionLiving #SeeItBeforeYouSeeOrYouNeverWillSeeIt --Deut 28:2, KJV: “And all these blessings shall come on you, and overtake you, if you shall hearken unto the voice of the LORD your God.” My heart breaks every time I hear about another tragic loss from suicide. These stories are poignant reminders of the depth of my childhood pain and despair. For people that say, I don’t know how someone could feel so bad that they think death is the only answer/way out, I tell them they are blessed. My prayer for them is that they NEVER experience that type of pain, trauma or despair but I know it all too well. So how did I go from that type of life to one filled with happiness, exceeding joy and favor? Sometimes you have to die to live. No, I don’t mean end your life: that is just a trick of the enemy to make you believe death is your only option. What has to die is: · the negative voices--the ones that said you would never be anything, do anything or achieve anything · your fear of failure · your feelings of hopeless, despair and unbelief · the spirits/things/substances/vices that temporarily make you feel good but slowly destroy you · anger · unforgiveness/a vengeful spirit · ANYTHING outside of God’s will and purpose for your life . . . all these things have to die or be silenced in order for you to live and thrive. You were born with greatness and destiny as part of your DNA. Even your struggles, traumas, failures and setbacks can be used as tools to propel you to a life that is better than anything you could possibly imagine. How? Take the beginning steps to your recovery/restoration today: createspace.com/5074934. Sometimes all you have is Happy: A guide to obtaining happiness while awaiting our dreams includes thought provoking questions and exercises that enable you to take the beginning steps to reclaiming your passion, purpose, power and joy. This image is heart wrenching but it demonstrates my message for today: there is a battle for your life.
The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy and does not care how he accomplishes that. A senseless death, crime, accident, disease, even a battle for your mind: it doesn’t matter, there is a daily battle for your life. Some life events defy explanation so don’t waste your time trying to figure them out. Other events are just Bible prophecy being fulfilled although devastating. So, if you feel the sting of the battle wounds or are marred by psychological, emotional scars, what are you to do? createspace.com/5074934 Sometimes all you have is Happy: A guide to obtaining happiness while awaiting our dreams: Chapter 1: Your “cheat” to Happy Chapter 2: What is your “happy” and does it need to be defined? Chapter 3: Find something bigger than you Chapter 4: The Simplicity of “Happy” What does your 2015 look like? I advise you to proceed with caution before you answer that question; here’s why:
We are entering the season of New Year’s resolutions: a time where you can plan to do and be everything. Making a New Year’s resolution is the easy part; creating a transformational life/experience is a harder achievement. What does your 2015 look like? If your answer is anything but positive then you will have exactly what you claim. No, I’m not saying name and claim it but: · Do you realize that as a child of God you were born with the authority to name and claim it? Matt. 18:18-19, NIV: o 18 Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. o 19 Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. So, again, what does your 2015 look like? I challenge you to go forth, divide and conquer. Which turkey would you rather eat? Technically they are both the same so what makes the difference in your choice? The process Ask anyone who has had surgery and they will tell you--it takes time to heal, there is a process. Sure, there is much fanfare that goes along with prepping for a surgery that can be just as crucial as the surgery and recovery itself. Yet, one often finds that the real work begins after the surgery/procedure. As I reflect on my own surgical experiences, there was one reoccurring theme: it takes time to heal. I continually looked for every possible variance during my recovery: the appearance of scars and suture lines as well as my overall feeling and strength level from day to day. I compared my preconceived timeframe coupled with the surgeon’s for when I would be able to return to life as usual. What I learned was . . . DON’T RUSH THE PROCESS; GIVE YOURSELF TIME TO HEAL My surgeon was patient but would remind me that everyone is different and it takes time to heal. Things don’t always look like you want them to but everything will eventually be fine. Sometimes it takes longer for one area to heal; sometimes things happen that change the recovery process and timeframe. Sometimes you hurt more than you anticipated or pain transfers to different areas that normally would not have been affected. Nevertheless the end is the same: with time you will heal and possibly be better than before. The ending holds true whether it’s surgery, heartbreak, loss or addiction that you are recovering from. Sometimes there is a new normal that is a blessing (with time) compared to your old normal. Take the beginning steps to your recovery/restoration right now: this is the part that you should rush on. Sometimes all you have is Happy: A guide to obtaining happiness while awaiting your dreams, includes thought provoking questions and exercises that enable you to take the beginning steps to reclaiming your passion, purpose, power and joy. Purchase your copy today at createspace.com/5074934. You might want to get a snack and drink before you read this one: If you know me well you know that I share with you what the Lord puts on my heart. His word for today was, What do your dreams say to you? After much travail, disappointments and discouragements, I have finally reached a refreshing period in my life where I can positively identify my dreams and tell you what each one says to me. I’m good with me/comfortable in my own skin and I no longer care whether you approve of the skin I’m in. I have fought long and hard to get to this place and it takes an even stronger will to stay here fulfill my purpose. (I’ll share with you later how you can get to the same place if you’re not already there.) The Lord reminded me that the above is not everyone’s testimony and some have stopped dreaming altogether. I remember that time in my life like it was yesterday. As I share in my book, Sometimes all you have is Happy: A guide to obtaining happiness while awaiting your dreams, “children remind us that we all start out in life with dreams, goals and aspirations. . . Children are not afraid to dream and dream big! Somewhere along the way we learn to give up: perhaps after numerous disappointments, rejections or negative influences and toxic environments” (Introduction, pg. 3). To make matters worse, in our vulnerable state, we start listening to the voice of others a.ka. the theys. Some of the theys really mean us no harm but, like the ones that do, people can only share from the space they are in (good, bad or indifferent). Statements like: · You still haven’t done that yet? You know, if you want to do (this or that) , you need to do it now before (time runs out/you get too old/you run out of stamina/while you’re still young, etc.) . · If I were you, I would forget about that; perhaps if you were younger or had done it back then. You’re getting to the point in your life where and that would just tire you out . . . · You know, I had a friend like you who wanted to do that and waited until they were you age and tried that but they realized they should’ve done it earlier. Maybe you should do instead or just give up on that dream. What do I say to all of that? The Devil is a lie! If you are ever going to live the life of your dreams, or at least make strides in the present, one of the first things you MUST do is learn how to silence any voice that comes against your purpose/dreams/vision and is not of God. You still haven’t done that yet? Who determines my yet a.k.a timeframe? Perhaps YOU believe something should be done by a certain date and time. If you do, I’m not hatin’ but your beliefs should determine your schedule/deadline/time clock, not mine. If I were you, I would . . . but you are not me so, again, if that is what you belief then you should do it that way. Your beliefs do not determine MY reality so do you and manage your own house/success and stay out of my driveway and from my yard. Just because YOU believe it do be so does not make it MY truth/reality. Everyone wants to be an expert but not enough want to share in the spirit of edifying, uplifting, encouraging, restoring and repairing. Life has enough pain, burdens, disappointments, frustrations, destruction and evil; why be a proponent of negativity when you can give life? Again, people only share from the place they are in so be careful who you allow to speak in your life and you who you listen to. Actually, you need to Master reading in between the lines and paying attention to what people do, don’t do, say and don’t say. When you see inconsistencies, take note: Misery really does love company so it is imperative, even vital, that you change your perspective especially concerning your dreams, disappointments, pain and discouragement. If everyone else you know has already failed, that means that you stand a better chance of winning. I am a cheerleader of seasons: there is a season for everything and, based on your life experience/journey/purpose/what you have survived thus far, your season can be drastically different from most. There are so many things in my life that God is opening doors for right now because it is the appropriate season. Some of them might typically be the aspirations of a younger person but God did not design me to be TYPICAL. My life has never been typical and, I am finally at the space where I can thank God for that. Some of you have spent far too long crying out, Lord why me? Perhaps now is your season to cry out, Lord send me, prepare me, shape me, equip me and mold me. Have you stopped dreaming or has life just simply worn you out? If so, change your battle cry to Lord restore me, fix me, help me, show me. I’m a living witness that He can and He WILL do just that. If you like what you’ve just read, I pray that you will do three things for me: 1) Share this ministry and these messages: http://thejoyguru.weebly.com/the-meditations-of-my-heart 2) Follow me on Facebook and share my author Facebook page on your social media pages: www.facebook.com/pages/Alesha-Brown-The-Joy-Guru/553182124799471 3) Purchase your copy of Sometimes all you have is Happy: A guide to obtaining happiness while awaiting your dreams at createspace.com/5074934 ***As I always encourage people, purchase additional copies to bless friends, family and those in the community who could use a message of encouragement with sound steps and principles of how to rise from their disappointments, failures and pain. Click here for just a taste of what the book offers and part of my personal testimony: https://soundcloud.com/alasha-bennett/alesha-brown-talks-about-finding-hapiness?utm_source=soundcloud&utm_campaign=share&utm_medium=facebook Phillipians 3: 12 Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. 13 Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, 14 I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.15 Therefore let us, as many as are mature, have this mind; and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal even this to you. 16 Nevertheless, to the degree that we have already attained, let us walk by the same rule, let us be of the same mind.--NKJV --Alesha Brown, The Joy Guru thejoyguru.weebly.com I know it is Thanksgiving Eve and many are wrapped up in the traditions of the season and whatever the holiday represents to them. How and if you observe Thanksgiving is your business; I just want to encourage you to remember to give God thanks for the gift you are. No this is not some hokey, cheerleader pump you up positivity message. Rather, this is a heartfelt plea in the spirit of God for you to not lose yourself in the busyness of the season. A good meal, time with loved ones and presents are great but you were created with a divine purpose. There are people assigned to you and you alone that are waiting to eat from the table of your anointing. There is a destiny that God has gifted you for that has nothing to do with you. Even your storms, journeys and their conclusions are divinely crafted as a testimony to God’s goodness. Your setbacks are setups for divine favor and an infectious overflow of the anointing of God!
There is something exquisite and beautiful about the unique gift you are. Your value CANNOT be found under a tree, in a gift box nor can it be decorated with a bow. So it’s your thing, do what you wanna do but don’t like the things you do outshine you. So before you pull up a chair and pile your plate, first look up to heaven and take the time to acknowledge the list of things in your life that demand you give God thanks. When was the last time you looked at yourself naked?
No seriously, I’m not talking about that peak in the mirror you do after your shower or as you dress frantically in the morning. I am referring to when was the last time you really took a look at the total you? We all have those parts of our body that we just don’t like—that cellulite that we wish was non-existent or the parts of our body that lack symmetry. Some of our frames are either too lean or too wide. For many it is a common practice to NEVER look at themselves naked; truly one of the saddest things in life. Just like that body part that we are displeased with, many faucets of our lives we wish we could erase. Too often someone might have told you that you are too “hard” but your hardcore exterior is beautiful because it demonstrates the protector in you. Your no nonsense attitude or serious nature demonstrates a person who takes care of business and refuses to waste time or opportunity. The way you wear your heart on your sleeve reveals the sensitive side to you and your soft hand of care as you interact with the world. We are wonderfully and fearfully made—even our imperfections highlight all that is beautiful and unique about us. That is why we need to look at ourselves NAKED! Are you too soft and need to toughen up? Are you too hard—do you need to relax and practice being vulnerable, allowing those around you to demonstrate their love for you and trustworthiness? Do you wear your heart on your sleeve too much or do you need to practice wisdom in whom you try to help or care for? Do you really have all your ducks in order or is it time for a reality check and realignment? Do you need to keep trying to please those around you or is it time to listen to that inner voice that you have silenced for too long? Unless you are willing to ditch the towel, turn on the lights and look into the mirror of your soul, you will never know. Start your work now: purchase your copy of Sometimes all you have is Happy--A guide to obtaining happiness while awaiting your dreams: createspace.com/5074934 Hear me clearly: YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE (yes, I am yelling at you)! So many times throughout life we are told or made to feel that we are failures. You try and try and nothing seems to come together. You do steps 1-9 and then 10-99 and repeat and still, it works for everyone else but you. Have you ever felt that you were singled out just to be picked on? I'm here to tell you today that the devil is a liar! You were picked out to be blessed. Decide today that, from this point forward, nothing but purpose, success, prosperity and abundance are coming your way. No, every day and circumstance is not going to be pleasant but, even when you experience delays, from this day forward you will no longer be denied. Any "no" will be a "yes" to a higher purpose, calling, anointing, blessing and next dimension living. YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE; there is a comeback in your spirit. So right now, trade in your crown of thorns for a BOUNCE BACK spirit. Put on your robe of strength, courage and determination and declare nothing but blessings and destiny over your life. After all, you've already tried giving up, throwing in the towel, frustration and tears--none of those have served you well. You are part of a royal priesthood and dominion is in your DNA. Refuse to live beneath your inheritance. For many the winter holiday season is one of the most depressing times of the year. While stores and TV depict warm, family moments full of food, good times, presents and holiday cheer, the reality is the exact opposite for many. · Is your heart, or the heart of someone you know, heavy because of the loved ones you’ve lost and wish you could have one more Christmas or Thanksgiving to celebrate with? · Do you think about happier times with an ex-spouse, partner or lover? Do you miss the times you once shared during this season with family and friends? · Have you recently lost your job, home or suffered a major financial loss and wonder how are you and your family are going to make it? Do you feel guilty because you struggle from day to day to pay bills and put food on the table and you know you will not be able to give the type of gifts you did in previous years? · Are you the one that is always left out of family celebrations or are your family holiday dinners full of fighting, tension and anger? Do you dread this time each year and struggle to keep up appearances while knowing that each celebration is worse than the one before? I bring you good news; help is on the way! Sometimes all you have is Happy: A guide to obtaining happiness while awaiting your dreams will tell you the steps you can take right now to regain your happiness and joy. You are 40 pages away from the knowledge, lessons, exercises and simplistic steps to changing the rest of your life. Let author Alesha Brown, The Joy Guru, share the many lessons she learned that enabled her to transition from a victim to a victor after surviving 17 years of childhood abuse and suicidal thoughts. Purchase your copy and don’t wait too long--your happiness and how you spend the rest of your life depends on it: createspace.com/5074934 ***As always, purchase extra copies to share with friends, loved ones and those in the community that you can bless with a message of hope and encouragement in the midst of despair and hopelessness. Stop defending, apologizing or minimizing your gifts, growth and blessings to the naysayers:11/16/2014 If you have ever had a surgery and was required to use a drain tube, the attached image probably provides flashbacks. (Sorry but it's during some of our most undesirable times that we learn the best lessons if we are willing to listen to the spirit.)
So often we experience a loss or death in our lives: a loss of a spouse, child or loved one--death, divorce or change to life as we once knew it; financial loss, health crisis, periods of unemployment, demotion or stagnation. Some experiences leave us so broken that we feel like we cannot go on. Yet, sooner or later, you will have to make a decision. Since the work/life continues, will you allow it to go on WITH or WITHOUT you? Regardless of the situation, the world will go on with or without you. Only God knows the number of years we will have on this side of eternity but, eventually, life will continue on without us. The same is true of that situation, loss, job, loved one and any other thing that troubles you: time waits for no one. So I encourage you today, and every day, whenever you feel lost, hurt or broken; persecuted, abandoned or forgotten; when you feel defeated and don't know which way to turn, just know the work continues. What legacy will you leave; what footprint will this earth have acknowledging your time spent here? What souls will testify to the impact that you made on their lives and grieve over your loss? If we start each day with these question on our mind, we will be reminded of our purpose and continue along the journey of life differently. Indeed, the work continues . . . . What , . .. 2 Cor. 12: 7 And lest I should be exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be exalted above measure. 8 For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. 9 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.--KJV I never understood the true depth of this scripture until I was an adult but I'm glad I learned it young. Naturally this sounds like an oxymoron: taking pleasure in that which is unpleasant. Yet, as I sit here facing another one of life's challenges, I can truly count it ALL JOY! I can't do anything but rejoice although physically I must remain still and rest. [Yet my soul still sings his praises and no period of recovery can interfere with that. Actually sing his praises is what has enabled me to weather the storm.] God has proved faithful and strong once again in my life and he has brought me out with fanfare. He has surrounded me with love and support; he has strengthened me and cured all that ailed me. I have come out better and strong then when I first entered the battle: isn't that the end goal? Sometimes it takes an adversity or challenge in our lives so we can enter a season of rest and revelation. I went into this storm knowing that God was going to bring me out and I would be victorious and that is exactly what happened. I declared that I was willing to endure minor discomfort in order to cure what ailed me and that is exactly what happened. [Truly Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.--Prov. 18:21, KJV] God has proven in my life that despite what obstacles comes my way they are not to the death. Even if I enter a situation where death is a possibility, I know that it will not be my reality. God is faithful and, although life will always have its persecutions, sufferings, imperfections and troubles, there will be a time of rejoicing, tribulation and jubilation. The more you endure, the more heart ache and trouble that comes your way, the more that God is going repay you for your suffering. So count it all joy and know that no matter what battle you face today, you are coming out on the WINNING side. Sure, there are some things that God will take away from you or heal and there are other things that you will be left to endure. Why and what makes the difference? I don't know but I do know this:God's grace is sufficient for thee and his strength is made perfect in your weakness. We have all had that type of morning: you’re rushing trying to do 100 different things while preparing to leave for work. You run out of the house with little or no makeup and do not feel like wearing any. Well, yesterday I did just thaT--I didn’t feel like putting on the concealer and I knew my office was mostly vacant. If I was brave enough to not wear any concealer all day long,:
· Why do I use/”NEED” concealer in the first place? · Who said that blemishes/imperfections needed to be covered? · Why is it that when I look in the mirror, I still see the same magnificent creation without concealer that I see with concealer on? If the reflection is the same, why do I cringe at the thought of leaving home without out? Some of you would say that my mind wonders too much but this is a metaphor for the way many of us think and act every day. Some of obsess about our outward appearance and how others perceive us. Others of us are so caught up in beauty regimens, diets and trends to achieve the “perfect figure” so that we have a “better chance of” being accepted by others—potential mates, social networks, employers, etc. Others sacrifice their dreams and precious quality of life and family time so that one day they can “reach the top and show the world” just how successful they are. That one day is today: no minute, hour or day is promised to anyone of us. Live life NOW: loudly, boisterously, joyfully and abundantly without the concealer. (P.S: I will still use concealer but with the awareness that, blemishes or not, I’m flawless and so are you.) |
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